What upsets me is not that you lied to me, but that from now on I can no longer believe you. Your work is to discover your life and with all your heart to give yourself to it. Patriot: the person who can holler loudest without knowing what he is hollering about. If you choose the lesser of two evils you are still choosing evil. You'll find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly on our own point of view. We are here to awaken from the illusion of our separateness. Happiness and enthusiasm are powerfully attractive; they draw people to you and make you successful. The thing women have got to learn is that nobody gives you power. You just take it. I attribute my success to this: I never gave or took an excuse. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate, or despise, serves to defeat us in the end. What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength, if faced with an open mind. To know is to be ignorant. Not to know is the beginning of wisdom. If fear is cultivated it will become stronger, if faith is cultivated it will achieve mastery. You can only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. Did you ever notice how difficult it is to argue with someone who is not obsessed with being right? One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives. Life may not always be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance. Careful what you set your heart upon, for it surely shall be yours. The only gracious way to accept an insult is to ignore it; if you can't ignore it, top it; if you can't top it, laugh at it; if you can't laugh at it, it's probably deserved. Dreams come a size too big so that we can grow into them. The more articulate one is, the more dangerous words become. Though they be only breath, words that I command are immortal. A book is not harmless merely because no one is consciously offended by it. There is no such thing as a moral or immoral book. Books are well written or badly written. That is all. The books that the world calls immoral are the books that show the world its own shame. Whenever books are burned men also in the end are burned. Blessed is the man who, having nothing to say, abstains from giving in words evidence of the fact. As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. Cowards die many times before their deaths; The valiant never taste death but once. Wrong must not win by technicalities. People say that what we're all seeking is the meaning of life... I think that what we're really seeking is the experience of being alive. As intelligence rises, the need for stimulation also rises. For every brain, there is an optimum level of arousal that your brain wants to get to. If your brain doesn't reach that level during the day, you've got to play. The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off. When I tell any truth it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those who do. Lying to ourselves is more deeply ingrained than lying to others. Tell the truth and then run. People would rather be wrong than be different. I would much rather have men ask why I have no statue, than why I have one. To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing. I shall never believe that god plays dice with the universe. The bravest thing you can do when you are not brave is to profess courage -- and act accordingly. The number of arguments is unimportant unless some of them are correct. A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words. Our lives improve only when we take chances -- and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves. And think not that you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. No one should approach the temple of science with the soul of a money changer. He uses statistics as a drunken man uses lamp-posts... for support rather than illumination. Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand -- and melting like a snowflake. See what no one sees. See what everyone chooses not to see out of fear, or conformity, or laziness. See the whole world anew! Each day! The world is my country; to do good is my religion. Without deviation from the norm, progress is not possible. Only the curious will learn and only the resolute overcome the obstacles to learning. The quest quotient has always excited me more than the intelligence quotient. There is no end. There is no beginning. There is only the infinite passion of life. For ye shall go out with joy, and be led forth with peace: the mountains and the hills shall break forth before you into singing, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands. They intoxicate themselves with work so they won't see how they really are. The Riddle of Epicurus The reward for conformity was that everyone liked you except yourself. We are lovers of beauty without extravagance, and lovers of wisdom without unmanliness. Only two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity, and I have my doubts about the former. To read a newspaper is to refrain from reading something worthwhile. The first discipline of education must therefore be to refuse resolutely to feed the mind with canned chatter. All men by nature desire knowledge. If you are not for yourself, who will be for you? Don't worry over what other people are thinking about you. They're too busy worrying over what you are thinking about them. You can risk loving another, or you can guarantee no love in your life. It is seldom that liberty of any kind is lost all at once. Walking a straight path is difficult for those who are crooked. As long as you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might. Just like moons and like suns, I don't believe in marriage. It's bloody impractical to love, honor and obey. If it weren't, you wouldn't have to sign a contract. Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. A friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself. Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. Come fill the cup and in the fire of spring [I]it is revolting to have no better reason for a rule of law than that 'so it was laid down in the time of Henry IV.' It is still more revolting if the grounds upon which it was laid down have vanished long since, and the rule simply persists from blind imitation of the past. Whenever I hear anyone arguing for slavery, I feel a strong impulse to see it tried on him personally. Only the curious will learn and only the resolute overcome the obstacles to learning. The quest quotient has always excited me more than the intelligence quotient. When we truly care for ourselves, it becomes possible to care far more profoundly about other people. Man cannot degrade woman without himself falling into degradation; he cannot elevate her without at the same time elevating himself. Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition. You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her. If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don't blame the women's movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based. The true republic: men, their rights and nothing more; women, their rights and nothing less. We are willing enough to praise freedom when she is safely tucked away in the past and cannot be a nuisance. In the present, amidst dangers whose outcome we cannot foresee, we get nervous about her, and admit censorship. Character consists of what you do on the third and fourth tries. Small communities grow great through harmony, great ones fall to pieces through discord. If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. To live in dialogue with another is to live twice. Joys are doubled by exchange and burdens are cut in half. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. How is it that a society that will watch "Who Wants to Marry a Multimillionaire" in huge numbers would reject unions between committed couples? Which is the greater mockery of marriage? The popular notion of love and marriage is that they are synonymous. ... Like most popular notions this also rests not on actual facts, but on superstition. [W]e are living in a sick Society filled with people who would not directly steal from their neighbor but who are willing to demand that the government do it for them. The fear of God is not the beginning of wisdom. The fear of God is the death of wisdom. Skepticism and doubt lead to study and investigation, and investigation is the beginning of wisdom. Of all the will toward the ideal in mankind only a small part can manifest itself in public action. All the rest of this force must be content with small and obscure deeds. The sum of these, however, is a thousand times stronger than the acts of those who receive wide public recognition. The latter, compared to the former, are like the foam on the waves of a deep ocean. He has the most who is most content with the least. Dogs and philosophers do the greatest good and get the fewest rewards. Show me a hero and I'll tell you a tragedy. The Possible's slow fuse is lit There are few people more often in the wrong than those who cannot endure to be thought so. A human being is a part of a whole, call by us: universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest... a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty. How ignorant is he who knows all but not himself. Live with intention. Every wall is a door. After the dream, the passion wrought by it remains. Beauty, truth, friendship, love, creation -- these are the great values of life. We can't prove them, or explain them, yet they are the most stable things in our lives. My definition of a free society is a society where it is safe to be unpopular. [O]ne thing I know; the only ones among us who will be truly happy are those who have sought and found how to serve. George Washington, when asked if he thought God was on his side, reportedly replied, "It is not that God should be on our side, but that we be on His." Math is like love -- a simple idea but it can get complicated. To feed men and not to love them is to treat them as if they were barnyard cattle. To love them and not respect them is to treat them as if they were household pets. The God you worship is the God you deserve. As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others. Awareness, in and of itself, is curative. Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love. Make no judgements where you have no compassion. Practice compassion. Live with intention. The gentlest thing in the world overcomes the hardest thing in the world. Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him. Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young. In a time of drastic change it is the learners who inherit the future. The learned usually find themselves equipped to live in a world that no longer exists. It's what you learn after you know it all that counts. All learning has an emotional base. I never try to teach my students anything. I only try to create an environment in which they can learn. From the very beginning of his education, the child should experience the joy of discovery. Anyone who makes a distinction between games and education clearly does not know the first thing about either one. Marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds outside desperate to get in, and those inside desperate to get out. Lighthouses are more helpful than churches. It is surely harmful to souls to make it a heresy to believe what is proved. A man's ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties and needs; no religious basis is necessary. If Christ were here now there is one thing he would not be... a Christian. Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful. No gods, no masters. All great truths begin as blasphemies. [H]eaven for climate and hell for society. History is full of people who out of fear, or ignorance, or lust for power have destroyed knowledge of immeasurable value which truly belongs to us all. We must not let it happen again. So far as I can remember, there is not one word in the Gospels in praise of intelligence. [I]f devotion to truth is the hallmark of morality, then there is no greater ... more heroic form of devotion than the act of a man who assumes the responsibility of thinking .... The Obligation of Subjects to the Sovereign is understood to last as long, and no longer, than the power lasts, by which he is able to protect them. For the right men have by Nature to protect themselves, when none else can protect them, can by no Covenant be relinquished. -- Hobbes, "Leviathan" (ch. 21) The branches of your intelligence grow new leaves in the wind of listening. Though all under heaven be at peace, if the arts of war be forgotten there is peril. I knew one thing: as soon as anyone said you didn't need a gun, you'd better take one along that worked. A man may be so much of everything that he is nothing of anything. Make happy those who are near, and those who are far will come. Seeker of Truth, follow no path. All paths lead where. Truth is here. People are inclined to accept all stories of ancient times in an uncritical way -- even when these stories concern their own native countries. I think it's better to have a regular sort of life, and love somebody when they're boiling cabbages and getting in tempers and curling up beside you in bed every night. That's a much better kind of love than a pretty one that ends in sad and lovely paintings. To live is to love; all reason is against it; instinct is for it. Pohl's law: Nothing is so good that somebody, somewhere, will not hate it. What an immense mass of evil must result ... from allowing men to assume the right of anticipating what may happen. Would you care to view the ruins of my good intentions? [T]est everything; hold on to the good.... Be open to other people -- they may enrich your dream. Listen to people with your heart instead of your ears and you will hear the truth. The anger you project onto others can destroy you. Be true to yourself and others, and you'll know the difference between right and wrong. You can only help someone when you know there’s a problem. Together, love and forgiveness are the golden keys to a peaceful soul and a happy heart. Everyone's life is made up of choices. If you are unhappy, it is because you choose to be. You are the only person who can change that. Discourage self-help, and loyal subjects become the slaves of ruffians. Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. If you think that the distance Christ had to come to take the likeness of man is not so great as that from man to gorilla, then you don't know men. Or gorillas. Or God. Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that's not why we do it. The dinosaurs became extinct because they didn't have a space program. Real historical writers probe factual uncertainties, but they do not invent convenient facts and they do not ignore inconvenient facts. People are entitled to their own opinions, but not to their own facts. Do one thing every day that scares you. May you live all the days of your life. When in despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won; there have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall. Power corrupts but so does weakness. And absolute weakness corrupts absolutely. Optimism is an intellectual choice. He who is most reluctant to make a promise is most likely to keep it. Qui male agit odit lucem. You will find that the truth is often unpopular and the contest between agreeable fancy and disagreeable fact is unequal. For, in the vernacular, we Americans are suckers for good news. [P.T.] Barnum’s great discovery was not how easy it is to deceive the public, but rather how much the public enjoyed being deceived. If you want breakfast in bed, sleep in the kitchen. I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career. Of course I don't look busy. I did it right the first time. Commitment is the spark that lights the fire. Aim for the moon. If you miss, you may hit a star. Four innate sentiments dispose people to a universal moral sense. These are sympathy, fairness, self-control, and duty. Before the world finds a place for you, find a place for yourself in the world. No dream comes true until you wake up and go to work. To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be. Some reckon time by stars, Anyone too busy to say thank you will get fewer and fewer chances to do so. Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that but the really great people make you feel you too can be great. This is a time for a loud voice, open speech, and fearless thinking. I rejoice that I live in such a splendidly disturbing time. Houston, Tranquillity Base here. The Eagle has landed. Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Things won are done; the joy lies in the doing. But there is such a thing as genuine love, which is always considerate. Its distinguishing characteristic is, in fact, regard for personal dignity. Its effect is to stimulate self-respect in the other person. Its concern is to help the loved one become their true self. In a mysterious way such love finds its truest realization in its power to stimulate the other to attain their highest self-realization. The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly is to fill the world with fools. There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences. If you think health care is expensive now, wait until you see what it costs when it's free. Just because you do not take an interest in politics doesn't mean politics won't take an interest in you. Giving money and power to government is like giving whiskey and car keys to teenage boys. The best way to predict the future is to create it. It is amazing how much more moral people can be if they know that immorality will have painful consequences. An eye for an eye will blind the world. Never offend with style when you can offend with substance. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them. Conformism brings uniformity rather than unity. Freedom has always been an expensive thing. Real beauty is my aim. Loyalty to petrified opinion never broke a chain or freed a human soul. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious. Knowledge is power, but power is just potential. Who controls the past controls the future; who controls the present, controls the past. Whatever occurs from love is always beyond good and evil. I have always thought of a myth as something that never was but is always happening. Dream is the personalized myth, myth the depersonalized dream. And Jesus said unto them, "And whom do you say that I am?" They replied, "You are the eschatological manifestation of the ground of our being, the ontological foundation of the context of our very selfhood revealed." And Jesus replied, "What?!" That rifle hanging on the wall of the working-class flat or labourer's cottage is the symbol of democracy. It is our job to see that it stays there. When a man's conscience and the laws clash, it is his conscience that he must follow. So heavy is the chain of wedlock that it needs two to carry it, and sometimes three. In a system of majoritarian rule with no protected rights, democracy is just two wolves and a sheep deciding what is for lunch. Love withers under constraint: its very essence is liberty: Faith: not wanting to know what is true. English doesn't borrow from other languages. English follows other languages down dark alleys, knocks them over, and goes through their pockets for loose grammar. No woman can call herself free until she can choose consciously whether she will or will not be a mother. Isn't it interesting that the same people who laugh at science fiction listen to weather forecasts and economists? To get the most out of being single, a woman has to develop a skill that is seemingly harder to come by these days than a good man: the ability to be happy even when other people are convinced you can't be. [L]iberty is a practice, not a condition. Even as they strike you down, you will remember, humanity is not our enemy. The only thing worthy of you is compassion ... Hatred will never let you face the beast in human beings. One day, when you face the beast alone, with your courage intact, your eyes kind ... out of your smile will bloom a flower. And ... on the long, rough road, the sun and the moon will continue to shine. They played all kinds of games, kept the House in session all night, and it was a very complicated bill. Maybe a handful of staffers actually read it, but the bill definitely was not available to members before the vote. The more you love, the more you can love -- and the more intensely you love. Nor is there any limit on how many you can love. If a person had time enough, he could love all of the majority who are decent and just. Imaginary evil is romantic and varied: real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring: real good is always new, marvelous, intoxicating. ‘Imaginative literature,’ therefore, is either boring, or immoral, or a mixture of both. Decide to be aggressive enough, quickly enough. The struggle is always worthwhile, if the end be worthwhile and the means honorable; foreknowledge of defeat is not sufficient reason to withdraw from the contest. To teach is to learn twice. I have gained this by philosophy: that I do without being commanded what others do only from fear of the law. In some respects, science has far surpassed religion in delivering awe. All professions are to a certain extent a conspiracy against the laity. I prefer rogues to imbeciles, because they sometimes take a rest. The law will never make men free; it is men who have got to make the law free. Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success. Freedom is nothing else but the chance to do better. Until you have been challenged, you don't know you're right. It's easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them. [D]o anything you wish to do, have anything you wish to have, be anything you wish to be. Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want. The successful person makes a habit of doing what the failing person doesn't like to do. Some people can't see the solution. Others can't see the problem. The best way to cheer yourself up is to cheer everybody else up. Sports do not build character. They reveal it. We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful what we pretend to be. Goals are new, forward-moving objectives. They magnetize you towards them. There is no such thing as a good excuse. Without courage, all other virtues lose their meaning. Nothing great has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe something inside them was superior to circumstances. Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but by controlling that desire. A man's doubts and fears are his worst enemies. First law of debate: Never argue with a fool. People might not know the difference. You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance. Feel yourself being quietly drawn by the deeper pull of what you truly love. Those who hear not the music, think the dancers mad. Many people resent being treated like the person they really are. Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we could be. Lots of folks confuse bad management with destiny. Life garners experience, and nothing replaces experience -- not talent nor good intentions. The easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am. When you're in love... it shows. Under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved. Ignoring the facts does not change them. As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light of meaning in the darkness of mere 'being.' Girls are being taught in school how to put a condom on a boy, but they don't know how to talk to them! Question with boldness even the existence of a God, because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason than that of blindfolded fear. The so-called dark side is not wholly an evil or negative place or force; after all, some things remain in the shadows because we've placed them there out of fear or squeamishness. Stars are not seen by sunshine. Without darkness there are no dreams. When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you. Why are we scared to die? Do any of us remember being scared when we were born? It is not enough for us to have an abstract, intellectual concept of our common community; we need to have places that enable us to go there and feel it as a real sensation. There's a reason they held that rally in Tiananmen Square, not a parking lot. And of course the same is true of other, humbler, values. The world is full of people who have never, since childhood, met an open doorway with an open mind. Ultimately, we become what we love. When will our consciences grow so tender that we will act to prevent human misery rather than avenge it? When I dare to be powerful -- to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid. Any excuse will serve a tyrant. A long memory is the most subversive idea in America. You can make it illegal, but you can't make it unpopular. The trouble with political jokes is that too often, they get elected. A sincere smile warms the coldest of hearts. What ever happens with us, your body will haunt mine. Comedy is tragedy plus time. The best portions of a good man's life, his little nameless unremembered acts of kindness and love. Life is too short to be small. Fear not that thy life shall come to an end, but rather fear that it shall never have a beginning. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. A friend is one who makes me do my best. We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it. 'Tis better to be alone than in bad company. True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in the worth and choice. He who desires, but acts not, breeds pestilence. Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength. Happiness to me means constant growth. Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. A man wrapped up in himself makes a very small package. Be a friend to thyself, and others will be so too. Look to be treated by others as you have treated others. Unshared joy is an unlighted candle. The older you get, the more you realize that kindness is synonymous with happiness. If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you always got. Tell me with whom thou art found and I will tell thee who thou art. It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live. At seventy, I would say the advantage is that you take life more calmly. You know that "this too will pass." Joy is the simplest form of gratitude. Our life is what our thoughts make it. Life is what we make it. Always has been. Always will be. Happiness depends upon ourselves. I tell you: one must still have chaos in oneself, to give birth to a dancing star. I tell you: you have still chaos in yourselves. He who wants to kill most thoroughly, laughs. Not by wrath but by laughter does one kill. Whatever you do, do it with all your heart and soul. Is not life a hundred times too short for us to bore ourselves? Happiness is a habit. Cultivate it. Wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been. Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood. My recipe for life is not being afraid of myself. Assume responsibility for the quality of your own life. The heart that loves is always young. Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old. Keep company with those who may make you better. When a true genius appears in the world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him. Get the advice of everybody whose advice is worth having -- they being very few -- then do what you think best yourself. It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well. The problem with any unwritten law is that you don't know where to go to erase it. You are your problem, and you are your solution. Your Truth will not be my Truth! We childproofed our home 3 years ago and they're still getting in! Advice for the day: If you have a lot of tension and you get a headache, do what it says on the aspirin bottle: "Take two Aspirin," and "Keep away from children." Where there is much light there is also much shadow. If music be the food of love, play on. There's no way to rule innocent men. The only power government has is the power to crack down on criminals. When there aren't enough criminals, one makes them. One declares so many things to be a crime that it becomes impossible for men to live without breaking laws. Everyone has problems. Everyone. But successful people figure out how to solve theirs. That's the difference between successful and unsuccessful people. Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet, and the winds long to play with your hair. Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute. Among the progress of the human mind that is most important for human happiness, we must count the entire destruction of the prejudices that have established inequality between the sexes, fatal even to the sex it favors. The cynic is his own worst enemy. It requires far less skill to run a wrecking company than it does to be an architect. We must believe that it is the darkest before the dawn of a beautiful new world. We will see it when we believe it. We do not stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing. You are only young once, but you can stay immature indefinitely. I understood that within the soul from its primordial beginnings there has been a desire for light and an irrepressible urge to rise out of the primal darkness. The longing for light is the longing for consciousness. What we wish, that we readily believe. In Blythe, California, a city ordinance declares that a person must own at least two cows before he can wear cowboy boots in public. You don't always win your battles, but it's good to know you fought. Blasphemy is ignoring your dreams. Do just once what others say you can't do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again. Garbage In -- Gospel Out Today when a man gets married he gets a home, a housekeeper, a cook, a cheering squad, and another paycheck. When a woman marries, she gets a boarder. The only possible interpretation of any research whatever in the `social sciences' is: some do, some don't. A city is a large community where people are lonesome together. People often find it easier to be a result of the past than a cause of the future. Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong. Man is a rational animal who always loses his temper when he is called upon to act in accordance with the dictates of reason. Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them. Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. Graduating in four years is like leaving the party at ten o'clock. A person is just about as big as the things that make them angry. Old age is too high a price to pay for maturity. Sure the world is full of trouble, but as long as we have people undoing trouble we have a pretty good world. God has granted to every people a prophet in its own tongue. Treat your inferiors as you would be treated by your betters. Believe you have it, and you have it. Love conquers all. Your success and happiness lie in you. External conditions are the accidents of life. The great enduring realities are love and service. Joy is the holy fire that keeps our purpose warm and our intelligence aglow. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulty. By the accident of fortune a man may rule the world for a time, but by virtue of love he may rule the world forever. Man is made by his belief. As he believes, so he is. Believe nothing, O monks, merely because you have been told it... or because it is traditional, or because you yourselves have imagined it. Do not believe what your teacher tells you merely out of respect for the teacher. But whatsoever, after due examination and analysis, you find to be conductive to the good, the benefit, the welfare of all beings -- that doctrine believe and cling to, and take it as your guide. Wicked men obey from fear; good men, from love. There is a difference between him who does no misdeeds because of his own conscience and him who is kept from wrong-doing because of the presence of others. The broad-minded see the truth in different religions; the narrow-minded see only their differences. Good and kind people outnumber all the others by thousands to one. The tragedy of human history lies in the enormous potential for destruction in rare acts of evil, not in the high frequency of evil people. Complex systems can only be built step by step by step, whereas destruction requires but an instant. The untested truths spun by different interests continue to churn and accumulate in the sandbox of political correctness and value systems. Building the future and keeping the past alive are one and the same thing. These are the times that try men's souls.... Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered; yet we have this consolation with us, that the harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face... You must do the thing which you think you cannot do. A nation is not conquered In the age of Oprah and Clinton, empathy -- or the confession thereof -- is an end in itself. I learned everything I know about hustling from the Baptist Church. The great thing about the internet is its leveling effect; online all opinions are equally worthless. The first myth of management is that it exists. The second myth of management is that success equals skill. Anyone who knows history, particularly the history of Europe, will, I think, recognize that the domination of education or of government by any one particular religious faith is never a happy arrangement for the people. Man must cease attributing his problems to his environment, and learn again to exercise his will -- his personal responsibility in the realm of faith and morals. And no, reason and logic are not masculine instruments of oppression. To suggest that they are is an insult to women. Self-education is a continuing source of pleasure to me, for the more I know, the fuller my life is and the better I appreciate my own existence. Computer programmers tend, by and large, to be quirky and highly individualistic. Trying to organize or manage such awkward characters is normally as thankless as herding cats. Leaders are people who do the right thing; managers are people who do things right. When some people discover the truth, they just can't understand why everybody isn't eager to hear it. You are never given a wish without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however. They laughed at Einstein. They laughed at the Wright Brothers. But they also laughed at Bozo the Clown. Going to church does not make a person religious, nor does going to school make a person educated, any more than going to a garage makes a person a car. In a free country we punish men for crimes they commit but never for the opinions they have. History does not always repeat itself. Sometimes it just yells "Can't you remember anything I told you?" and lets fly with a club. Pohl's law: Nothing is so good that somebody, somewhere, will not hate it. Gentleness is not a weakness... gentleness is power under control. Ignorance leads to fear. Fear causes anger. Anger gets you into trouble. Pride keeps you there. Never be afraid to stand with the minority when the minority is right, for the minority which is right will one day be the majority; Always be afraid to stand with the majority which is wrong, for the majority which is wrong will one day be the minority. Documentation is like sex: when it is good, it is very, very good; and when it is bad, it is better than nothing. A civilized society is one which tolerates eccentricity to the point of doubtful sanity. The Tao of heaven is to take from those who have too much and give to those who do not have enough. Live as those who have the Self as lamp, the Self as refuge, and no other. I am awake. It is your concern when your neighbor's wall is on fire. It is necessary, therefore, to obey the universal; but although the Logos is universal most people live as though they had a private understanding.[v.2] When myths lose their meaning and understanding gives way to fairy tale, language must necessarily change accordingly, and philosophy takes up the cause of meaning. To define is to confine. A Fanatic is someone who doubles his effort while losing his aim. We all remember how many religious wars were fought for a religion of love and gentleness; how many bodies were burned alive with the genuinely kind intention of saving souls from the eternal fire of hell. Marriage is important when you're afraid, insecure, or need something. It's possible to be married just by being together. If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married. It may be that if the job description of wife were spelled out in full no sensible woman would apply. [The] idealization of marriage is typical of those who are excluded from it: priests, gays, adolescents. It shows an extraordinary willful blindness. I would rather be a beggar and single than a queen and married. Morality consists of suspecting other people of not being legally married. Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love. "I am" is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that "I do" is the longest sentence? Let no one ever say that marriages are made in Heaven; the gods would not commit so great an injustice! Marriage is an institution. I'm not ready for an institution. Any intelligent woman who reads the marriage contract, and then goes into it, deserves all the consequences. What it boils down to is this: Marriage feels wrong. My relationship with Hugh feels very, very right. Marriage is irrelevant to the daily hubbub of our relationship. Marriage is like lipstick or high heels or party dresses: so incredibly foreign and so clearly the trappings of someone else's idea of womanhood. [A] mistake of great historical significance has been made in modern times in the construction of a doctrine which treated traditions as the detritus of the forward movement of society. ... [A] life without piety, including piety to the past, courts grief and does damage to the life of the living individual. A copy of the universe is not what is required of art; one of the damned things is ample. You're never too old to become younger. Westheimer's Discovery: A couple of months in the laboratory can frequently save a couple of hours in the library. The help people need most urgently is help in admitting that they need help. You can have peace. Or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once. Justice without mercy is not justice. Advertising is the rattling of a stick inside a swill bucket. When I'm old, I don't want them to say of me, "She's so charming." I want them to say, "Be careful, I think she's armed." The biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has occurred. Because most people do not read books, reading is sometimes labeled elitist. But, in fact, it is no more elitist than walking -- less so, because the government pays for you to learn to read, whereas you have to pick up walking by yourself. Nor are books just for the moneyed. You can get them free from public libraries. Some people are too lazy to read or walk, but that has nothing to do with elitism. If hate is what you want to censor, then shut down the churches: No artist has ever produced so much bile and hate as spew forth from pulpits in the name of God. Fear is the greatest salesman. Professional wrestling: ballet for the common man. Empty is the argument of the philosopher which does not relieve any human suffering. The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. A proper fairy tale is anything but an untruth; it goes to the very heart of truth. It goes to the hearts of men and women and speaks of the things it finds there: fear, courage, greed, compassion, loyalty, betrayal, despair, and wonder. It speaks of these things in a symbolic language that slips into our dreams, our unconscious, steeped in rich archetypal images. A good fairy tale, or fantastic novel, may indeed lead us through a door from daily life to the magic lands of Once Upon a Time, but it should then return us back again with a sharper vision of our own world. Instead of replacing real life, good fantasy whets our taste for it and opens our eyes to its wonders. The people sensible enough to give good advice are usually sensible enough to give none. Live never to be ashamed if anything you do or say is published around the world -- even if what is published is not true. Do not do unto others as you would they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same. When I give food to the poor, they call me a saint. When I ask why the poor have no food, they call me a communist. Neither slave nor tyrant. The fact that people are poor or discriminated against doesn't necessarily endow them with any special qualities of justice, nobility, charity, or compassion. Our bodies are our gardens -- our wills are our gardeners. The price of greatness is responsibility. Honesty pays, but it doesn't seem to pay enough to suit some people. Satan, it will be remembered, is not a conqueror, not an exploiter. He is a tempter, a seducer, most dangerous when he smiles. Your motives for doing whatever good deed you may have in mind will be misinterpreted by somebody. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena... who strives valiantly, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in worthy causes. Who, at best, knows the triumph of high achievement and who, at worst, if he fails, fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat. My candle burns at both ends; There are those who will say that the liberation of humanity, the freedom of man and mind are nothing but a dream. They are right. It is a dream. It is the American dream. The Fall of man, as the Bible recounts it, is really the Fall of God. ...the prescriptive distinction that states that we practice religion but they practice magic should be seen for what it is, a political validation of the approved and the official against the unapproved and unofficial. What profit has not that fable of Christ brought us! Rejoice with everlasting joy Never let your schooling interfere with your education. Love seeketh not Itself to please, The healthy man does not torture others -- generally it is the tortured who turn into torturers. Put your trust in those who are worthy. ...the more the soul knows, the more she loves, and loving much, she tastes much. It is proof of a base and low mind for one to wish to think with the masses or majority, merely because the majority is the majority. Truth does not change because it is, or is not, believed by a majority of the people. It is a strange desire to seek power and to lose Liberty. Knowledge's kiss, Henceforth I ask not good fortune -- I myself am good fortune There is no god; there is only the illusion you see of yourself. Here I am, fifty-eight, and I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up. The only really decent thing to do behind a person's back is pat it. Take it for granted, that by far the greatest part of mankind do neither analyse nor search to the bottom; they are incapable of penetrating deeper than the surface. All have senses to be gratified, very few have reason to be applied to. Graceful utterance and action please their eyes, elegant diction tickles their ears; but strong reason would be thrown away upon them. I'm not sure which upsets me more: that people are so unwilling to accept responsibility for their own actions, or that they are so eager to regulate everyone else's. Ancoro imparo Lo! Men have become the tool of their tools. Well-informed cynicism is only another mode of conformity. [W]e must not judge the society of the future by considering whether or not we should like to live in it; the question is whether those who have grown up in it will be happier than those who have grown up in our society or those of the past. There may be times when we are powerless to prevent injustice, but there must never be a time when we fail to protest. How to defeat terrorism? Don't be terrorized. Don't let fear rule your life. Even if you are scared. Je n'ai pas besoin de cet hypothese The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. The truth is more important than the facts. Research is what I'm doing when I don't know what I'm doing. There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. Now, now, my good man, this is no time for making enemies. I criticize by creation -- not by finding fault. There is only one nature -- the division into science and engineering is a human imposition, not a natural one. Indeed, the division is a human failure; it reflects our limited capacity to comprehend the whole. Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame. The President has kept all of the promises he intended to keep. The right to swing my fist ends where the other man's nose begins. The difference between fiction and reality? Fiction has to make sense. Democracy does not guarantee equality of conditions -- it only guarantees equality of opportunity. Well done is better than well said. The average person thinks he isn't. Opportunities multiply as they are seized. Never mistake motion for action. Men have become the tools of their tools. I have never let my schooling interfere with my education. The difference between pornography and erotica is lighting. You can get more with a kind word and a gun than you can with a kind word alone. The gods too are fond of a joke. If I were two-faced, would I be wearing this one? I am not young enough to know everything. Good teaching is one-fourth preparation and three-fourths theater. University politics are vicious precisely because the stakes are so small. When I am working on a problem I never think about beauty. I only think about how to solve the problem. But when I have finished, if the solution is not beautiful, I know it is wrong. Most people would sooner die than think; in fact, they do so. I do not consider it an insult, but rather a compliment to be called an agnostic. I do not pretend to know where many ignorant men are sure -- that is all that agnosticism means. Education is a progressive discovery of our own ignorance. A witty saying proves nothing. All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident. Many a man's reputation would not know his character if they met on the street. The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good. A people that values its privileges above its principles soon loses both. A friendship founded on business is better than a business founded on friendship. How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself. Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go. God is a comedian playing to an audience too afraid to laugh. I'm all in favor of keeping dangerous weapons out of the hands of fools. Let's start with typewriters. Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake. Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws. If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance. Whether you think that you can, or that you can't, you are usually right. If a man does his best, what else is there? You are scrupulously honest, frank, and straightforward. Therefore you have few friends. As I argued in "Beloved Son," a book about my son Brian and the subject of religious communes and cults, one result of proper early instruction in the methods of rational thought will be to make sudden mindless conversions -- to anything -- less likely. Brian now realizes this and has, after eleven years, left the sect he was associated with. For I can see that in the midst of death, life persists. In the midst of untruth, truth persists. In the midst of darkness, light persists. The divinity of Jesus is made a convenient cover for absurdity. Nowhere in the Gospels do we find a precept for Creeds, Confessions, Oaths, Doctrines, and whole carloads of other foolish trumpery that we find in Christianity. Civilization is the limitless multiplication of unnecessary necessities. If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain. Integrity without knowledge is weak and useless, and knowledge without integrity is dangerous and dreadful. Happiness isn't having what you want, it's wanting what you have. The worst sin towards our fellow creatures is not to hate them, but to be indifferent to them; that's the essence of inhumanity. I guess I've been so wrapped up in playing the game that I never took time enough to figure out where the goal line was -- what it meant to win -- or even how you won. Shame is an improper emotion invented by pietists to oppress the human race. To me there is nothing but puerility in a tale in which the human form -- and the local human passions and conditions and standards -- are depicted as native to other worlds or other universes. As for seriously-written books on dark, occult, and supernatural themes -- in all truth they don't amount to much. That is why it's more fun to invent mythical works like the 'Necronomicon' and 'Book of Eibon.' Adulthood is hell. For some, sex leads to sainthood; for others it is the road to hell... all depends on one's point of view. The difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less. Getting an education was a bit like a communicable sexual disease. It made you unsuitable for a lot of jobs and then you had the urge to pass it on. The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled. Fear nothing but the failure to experience your true nature. Often the test of courage is not to die but to live. The idea is like grass. It craves sunlight, likes crowds, thrives on crossbreeding, grows better for being stepped on. Science and fun cannot be separated. ...that as we enjoy great Advantages from the Inventions of others, we should be glad of an Opportunity to serve others by an Invention of ours, and this we should do freely and generously. Life doesn't make any sense, and we all pretend it does. Comedy's job is to point out that it doesn't make sense. Despair is the price one pays for setting himself an impossible aim. Others may argue about whether the world ends with a bang or a whimper. I just want to make sure that mine doesn't end with a whine. I have found that if you love life, life will love you back. Few rich men own their own property. The property owns them. The proverb warns that 'You should not bite the hand that feeds you.' But maybe you should, if it prevents you from feeding yourself. Adventure is worthwhile in itself. Enjoy your own life without comparing it with that of another. All serious daring starts from within. Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. What are politicians going to tell people when the Constitution is gone and we still have a drug problem? You [should] not examine legislation in the light of the benefits it will convey if properly administered, but in the light of the wrongs it would do and the harm it would cause if improperly administered. Perhaps I am stronger than I think. Trouble shared is trouble halved. The most drastic, and usually the most effective remedy for fear is direct action. Many of our fears are tissuepaper-thin, and a single courageous step would carry us through them. One had to take some action against fear when once it laid hold of one. For me, singing sad songs often has a way of healing a situation. It gets the hurt out in the open -- into the light, out of the darkness. Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence. Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will. The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice. Liberal whites need black anger to prove the persistence of racism among their unenlightened neighbors, which they alone can atone for by the noblesse oblige of liberal paternalism. Thus, to reinforce their own sense of moral superiority, they confer racial authenticity only on blacks like Damon Lynch (a provocateur), self-proclaimed angry victims of American bigotry. No man is free who is not master of himself. discipline, passion Few things are harder to put up with than the annoyance of a good example. There is no such thing as a moral or an immoral book. Books are well written or badly written. Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius -- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction. I can trust my friends... These people force me to examine myself, encourage me to grow. Books won't stay banned. They won't burn. Ideas won't go to jail. In the long run of history, the censor and the inquisitor have always lost. The only sure weapon against bad ideas is better ideas. Nowadays most men lead lives of noisy desperation. Do not blame anybody for your mistakes and failures. You will do foolish things, but do them with enthusiasm. Practice being excited. There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship. Class is... the sure-footedness that comes with having proved you can meet life. All possibility of understanding is rooted in the ability to say no. Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. One of the best temporary cures for pride and affectation is seasickness; a man who wants to vomit never puts on airs. If you deny yourself commitment, what can you do with your life? Before a standing army can rule, the people must be disarmed; as they are in almost every kingdom of Europe. Laws that forbid the carrying of arms ... disarm only those who are neither inclined nor determined to commit crimes. ... Such laws make things worse for the assaulted and better for the assailants; they serve rather to encourage than to prevent homicides, for an unarmed man may be attacked with greater confidence than an armed man. There seemed to be endless obstacles... it seemed that the root cause of them all was fear. The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who, in times of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality. The Church says the Earth is Flat, But I know that it is Round, For I have seen the Shadow on the Moon, and I have more Faith in a Shadow than in the Church. If you can walk you can dance. If you can talk you can sing. Seven Deadly Social Sins: Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength. Change occurs when one becomes what she is, not when she tries to become what she is not. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections. He who fears being conquered is sure of defeat. People who want to share their religious views with you almost never want you to share yours with them. A man's worth is no greater than his ambitions. Striving for perfection is the greatest stopper there is... It's your excuse to yourself for not doing anything. Instead, strive for excellence, doing your best. Learn to see in another's calamity the ills which you should avoid. It's weak and despicable to go on wanting things and not trying to get them. The price of seeking to force our beliefs on others is that someday they might force their beliefs on us. I'm happier... I guess I made up my mind to be that way. Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names. The greatest discovery of my generation is that a man can alter his life simply by altering his attitude of mind. The only way to enjoy anything in this life is to earn it first. He who knows how to flatter also knows how to slander. Just don't give up trying to do what you really want to do. Where there is love and inspiration, I don't think you can go wrong. You can pretend to be serious; you can't pretend to be witty. If you have no will to change it, you have no right to criticize it. Be wary of the man who urges an action in which he himself incurs no risk. Once harm has been done, even a fool understands it. Quigley's Law: Whoever has any authority over you, no matter how small, will atttempt to use it. The way you overcome shyness is to become so wrapped up in something that you forget to be afraid. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Rarely do people communicate; they just take turns talking. Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me. No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an unchartered land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything. Miseranda vita qui se mitui quam amari malunt. No one grows old by living, only by losing interest in living. 'Martyrdom' is the only way a person can become famous without ability. If we suffer tamely a lawless attack upon our liberty, we encourage it, and involve others in our doom. I never give them hell. I just tell the truth, and they think it is hell. Fate loves the fearless. The education of a man is never complete until he dies. Make sure you have finished speaking before your audience has finished listening. I quote others only the better to express myself. Trouble is a sieve through which we sift our acquaintances. Those too big to pass through are our friends. Nothing is more difficult, and therefore more precious, than to be able to decide. Ask the next Question. Keep on asking questions, and don't stop; sooner or later you'll be asking intelligent ones. If you live long enough. Censorship removes the ability of people to experience what they wish. Anarchy removes the ability of people to avoid what they wish. Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition aspired, and success achieved. All of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today. We secure our friends not by accepting favors but by doing them. If you can, help others. If you can't, at least don't hurt others. Courage is fear holding on a minute longer. Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else. Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power. People ask you for criticism, but they only want praise. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. Originality is the art of concealing your source. Traditional human government consists of thieves and murderers. By adopting the electoral process, we have weeded out the murderers. This is actually about as good as it gets. Stop tolerating in your leaders what you would not tolerate in your friends. A man who was handsome, intelligent, and elegant, was asked who he was. "I am the Devil", he replied. "But that cannot be," said the questioner, "for the Devil is evil and ugly!" "My friend," was the reply, "you have been listening to my detractors." We cannot command nature except by obeying her. One man is no more than another if he does no more than another. It is necessary to try to surpass oneself always; this occupation ought to last as long as life. It is better to wear chains than to believe you are free, and weigh yourself down with invisible chains. The end of labor is to gain leisure. Where it is a duty to worship the sun it is pretty sure to be a crime to examine the laws of heat. We are each only one drop in a great ocean -- but some of the drops sparkle! The time is always right to do what is right. To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the cruelest words. Only fools and dead men don't change their minds. Fools won't and dead men can't. The object of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives. If you can talk brilliantly about a problem, it can create the consoling illusion that it has been mastered. Truth is what stands the test of experience. Hope is a waking dream. Pauca sed matura The key to change... is to let go of fear. Love the moment and the energy of the moment will spread beyond all boundaries. That friendship will not continue to the end which is begun for an end. Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope or confidence. The world is all gates, all opportunities, strings of tension waiting to be struck. She lacks confidence, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on the reflections of herself in the eyes of others. She does not care to be herself. Those who are mentally and emotionally healthy are those who have learned when to say yes, when to say no and when to say whoopee. What on earth would a man do with himself if something did not stand in his way? Examine the contents, not the bottle. If you are afraid of being lonely, don't try to be right. Any fool can make a rule. Bureaucracy is a giant mechanism operated by pygmies. Wise Man: One who sees the storm coming before the clouds appear. The impossible is often the untried. If you reject the food, ignore the customs, fear the religion and avoid the people, you might better stay home. Natives who beat drums to drive off evil spirits are objects of scorn to smart Americans who blow horns to break up traffic jams. Through travel I first became aware of the outside world; it was through travel that I found my own introspective way into becoming a part of it. A man never discloses his own character so clearly as when he describes another's. The secret of happiness is this: Let your interests be as wide as possible, and let your reactions to the things and persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly rather than hostile. Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of bad training. Love: something they say is blind; it's marriage which is the real eye opener. Love: an emotion which, even if unreturned, has its rainbow. Love: the only game that two can play and both win Love: the last and most serious of the childhood diseases. Love consists of happiness, given back and forth. Love: a situation which happens when you think almost as much of another as you do of yourself. Love: the only virtue that can be divided endlessly and still not be diminished. If you don't control your mind, someone else will. Don't rent space to anyone in your head. I respect faith, but doubt is what gets you an education. You've got to do your own growing, no matter how tall your grandfather was. Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them. Anything I've ever done that ultimately was worthwhile... initially scared me to death. If a man harbors any sort of fear, it ... makes him landlord to a ghost. Kill the snake of doubt in your soul, crush the worms of fear in your heart, and mountains will move out of your way. If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. You live longer once you realize that any time spent being unhappy is wasted. Life is a battle in which we fall from wounds we receive in running away. Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value. To me success means effectiveness in the world, that I am able to carry my ideas and values into the world - that I am able to change it in positive ways. Your future depends on many things, but mostly on you. What we think, we become. Sacher's Observation: Some people grow with responsibility -- others merely swell. Experience is not what happens to you, it is what you do with what happens to you. Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress. Power is not revealed by striking hard or often, but by striking true. When you stop learning, stop listening, stop looking and asking questions, always new questions, then it is time to die. There isn't any formula or method. You learn to love by loving -- by paying attention and doing what one thereby discovers has to be done. Let others praise ancient times; I am glad I was born in these. I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. A mistake is evidence that someone tried to do something. They can because they think they can. Real difficulties can be overcome; it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable. I tried to treat them like me, and some of them weren't. Men are more often bribed by their loyalties and ambitions than by money. Without trust, words become the hollow sound of a wooden gong. With trust, words become life itself. Acceptance of what happened is the first step to overcoming the consequence of any misfortune. Things turn out best for people who make the best of the way things turn out. Doubt indulged soon becomes doubt realized. Don't let other people tell you what you want. We are what we believe we are. Blessed are they that have nothing to say, and who cannot be persuaded to say it. Sharing what you have is more important than what you have. I don't believe in pessimism. Virtue is its own punishment. Righteous people terrify me... virtue is its own punishment. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold. If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can't, you're right. You grow up the day you have your first real laugh - at yourself. You win the victory when you yield to friends. Happy people plan actions, they don't plan results. All problems become smaller if you don't dodge them, but confront them. When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die. Never give way to melancholy; resist it steadily, for the habit will encroach. If a man loses his reverence for any part of life, he will lose his reverence for all of life. Extreme fear can neither fight nor fly. It's is not, it isn't ain't, and it's it's, not its, if you mean it is. If you don't, it's its. Then too, it's hers. It isn't her's. It isn't our's either. It's ours, and likewise yours and theirs. I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship. Act - act in the living present! Learn as if you were going to live forever. Live as if you were going to die tomorrow. Whatever you do, don't give up. Because all you can do once you've given up is bitch. I've known some great bitchers in my time. With some it's a passion, with others an art. The secret of a leader lies in the tests he has faced over the whole course of his life and the habit of action he develops in meeting those tests. The truth is more important than the facts. Ten persons who speak make more noise than ten thousand who are silent. I want to do it because I want to do it. In not making the decision, you've made one. Not doing something is the same as doing it. To behave with dignity is nothing less than to allow others freely to be themselves. Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young. I am not a politician and my other habits are also good. I want to separate sin from crime. You may have to ask forgiveness for your sins from God, but not from the Minister of Justice. There's no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation. Come the Revolution things will be different. Not better, just different. Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend. One way or another, we all have to find what best fosters the flowering of our humanity in this contemporary life, and dedicate ourselves to that. Practical politics consists of ignoring facts. One may be in as just possession of truths as of a city, and yet be forced to surrender. Strangers -- they're exciting, their mystery never ends I have never made but one prayer to God, a very short one: 'O Lord, make my enemies ridiculous.' And God granted it. Everything's in the mind. That's where it all starts. Knowing what you want is the first step toward getting it. Difficulties exist to be surmounted. Luck is largely a matter of paying attention. Unless I accept my faults, I will most certainly doubt my virtues. There's no labor a man can do that's undignified, if he does it right. No matter how far you have gone on a wrong road, turn back. Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much. I have lived my life according to this principle: If I'm afraid of it, then I must do it. When thinking won't cure fear, action will. You can preach a better sermon with your life than with your lips. Correction does much, but encouragement does more. I'm not happy. I'm cheerful. There's a difference. A happy woman has no cares at all. A cheerful woman has cares but has learned how to deal with them. Use what talents you have; the woods would have little music if no birds sang their song except those who sang best. Yes, we did produce a near perfect Republic. But will they keep it, or will they, in the enjoyment of plenty, lose the memory of freedom? Material abundance without character is the surest way to destruction. Those who cast the votes decide nothing. Those who count the votes decide everything. As you grow older, you'll find the only things you regret are the things you didn't do. Nothing is so strong as gentleness, and nothing is so gentle as true strength. We cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are. To find in ourselves what makes life worth living is risky business, for it means that once we know we must seek it. It also means that without it, life will be valueless. Fear nothing, for every renewed effort raises all former failures into lessons, all sins into experiences. He was the spirit of wit If you do not think about the future, you cannot have one. When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle. Actually, marriage and crucifixion have a lot in common. Marley was a Rasta; Moses was a Jew; You will be called upon to account for all the permitted pleasures in life you did not enjoy while on earth. For a successful technology, reality must take precedence over public relations, for Nature cannot be fooled. Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in one pretty and well preserved piece, but to skid broadside, thoroughly used up, worn out and defiantly shouting "Geronimo!" Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence. You can't expect a boy to be v |