{"id":3371,"date":"2012-07-08T13:01:54","date_gmt":"2012-07-08T20:01:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/?p=3371"},"modified":"2012-07-08T13:01:54","modified_gmt":"2012-07-08T20:01:54","slug":"on-the-road-with-the-supposed-mind-body-split","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/2012\/07\/on-the-road-with-the-supposed-mind-body-split\/","title":{"rendered":"On the road with the supposed mind-body split"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I ended up not being able to get my original room for a second night, so I had to go across the road to the Plaza for a slightly more expensive, but also <i>much<\/i> nicer room. The Plaza is a far more&#8230; upscale hotel than the Las Vegas Club, though they&#8217;re both owned by the same guy, as I noted previously. I also overheard that the Club is currently undergoing refurbishing, so that would explain a lot.<\/p>\n<p>I had originally intended to type that the Plaza was a classier hotel, but last night I was startled to walk through the casino there &#8212; and notice all the dealers were girls in scarlet sequined bikinis, fishnet stockings, and furry boots. One of them was up on one of the tables as well, dancing. Honestly, I felt that particular display put the kibosh on any simultaneous use of the word &#8220;classy.&#8221; :)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m writing this at a McDonald&#8217;s on my route, about halfway to where I plan to stop for the night. Driving long distance means you have lots of time to think. It also means you get to occasionally meet the weirdos. I was driving along the highway at one point and realized a semi I&#8217;d passed earlier had pulled up next to me, and was signaling to move over into my lane. I didn&#8217;t speed up or slow down or anything that I noticed; I figured it would move over when it was past. Rather to my surprise, however, it started shifting over &#8212; while it was still <i>next<\/i> to me. Had I not braked immediately and swung over to drive on the shoulder, the semi would have sideswiped me. I&#8217;m not sure what annoyed the driver so, though I could see the trailer was fishtailing a little. Maybe it&#8217;s dangerous to not be on the right in such a situation?<\/p>\n<p>Again, I thought nothing of it past that &#8212; except that then the semi slowed down. I shifted warily over into the left lane and sped up a little to maintain a steady speed of about 65 mph, which was (as far as I&#8217;d seen) the speed limit at that point. The semi sped up too. So I slowed down to about 60&#8230; and the semi slowed too.<\/p>\n<p>Fine. I&#8217;ve seen that game played better by other jerks, and the best way I know to defeat it is to not play. So I put Dark Star&#8217;s cruise control on 65, and kept a wary half-an-eye on the semi. I also took note of his license plate for just-in-case: Nebraska plates with the number 183126 on a pale blueish semi with Werner painted on the side. I must&#8217;ve been passing him due to being about 1 mph faster than he, which meant that I really felt for the people behind us, but there wasn&#8217;t a whole lot I could do about it. I kept a steady forward gaze the entire time, putting a mental wall between me and the semi&#8217;s driver so he&#8217;d lose interest in playing. Eventually I was pretty much past, but since I have a long tail in the van, and the semi had played games with me earlier when I moved over in front of him, I stayed in the left hand lane for a bit longer, to be sure my shift over couldn&#8217;t be construed as incendiary in any fashion.<\/p>\n<p>This took a while, of course, and two cars bunched up behind me and squeezed between me and the semi, passing in the right hand lane before I could properly move back into that lane. Here&#8217;s the curious thing: the second car to pass was driven by some beefy young man who flipped the bird at me as he sped by. He pumped his arm a few times to emphasize his action, and I found myself rather amused. My first thought was that the young man doubtless thought it better to take out his anger so on a woman apparently driving alone rather than a trucker. ;)<\/p>\n<p>My second thought, though, was to wonder: since when has a man&#8217;s phallus &#8212; supposedly a source of pleasure and joy &#8212; become a tool for angry punishment? Do guys realize this has happened in the popular consciousness? Does it worry them?<\/p>\n<p>That got me thinking about women&#8217;s vulvas, and how they&#8217;re popularly considered a source of disgusting filth rather than the source of life and yet more pleasure and joy. Considering this, I find myself believing that most people in our culture do not really like themselves very much, considering how we compartmentalize and vilify various parts of our selves. I suspect all of those pretty girls in Vegas, after all, weren&#8217;t happy with their looks. I also suspect one of the reasons &#8220;American Storm&#8221; (the male review showing at the hotel I was at in Vegas) was so much less well-advertised than the musical &#8220;Best Little Whorehouse in Texas,&#8221; is because most men don&#8217;t want to feel threatened by comparison to those athletic young (and *cough* extremely nice looking) male dancers. Wouldn&#8217;t it be easier to not stress so much about one&#8217;s physical form, though?<\/p>\n<p>Whups, out of time &#8212; got to get back on the road. 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