{"id":39,"date":"2008-08-24T02:46:43","date_gmt":"2008-08-24T09:46:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/?p=39"},"modified":"2010-07-20T08:25:22","modified_gmt":"2010-07-20T15:25:22","slug":"how-do-we-keep-honesty-part-v","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/2008\/08\/how-do-we-keep-honesty-part-v\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do We Keep Honesty? (part V)"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Conclusions<\/h2>\n<p>Gathering together all the ramblings and data we&#8217;ve gone through so far, we can now hopefully reach some useful insights on dealing with issues such as these (Note: please consider the pronoun &#8216;you&#8217; to be a general reference term for myself and any readers): First, let&#8217;s state the <b>goals<\/b> for which we performed this thought experiment:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>To remain honest in day to day life, and\n<\/li>\n<li>To recognize and avoid lying and liars\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Second, here&#8217;s the <b>basic information<\/b> we&#8217;ve come up with:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p>Using vague speech or silence to deliberately give a false impression is lying,<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>Speaking what you <i>believe<\/i> is the truth is not lying, even if you are mistaken, but<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>Deliberately promoting falsehood, to yourself or others, is lying.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Now to put it all together, into a useful <b>framework for daily life<\/b>. How to avoid lying and remain honest, with situations such as those mentioned in this article?<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<p>When asked a question you do not want to answer, cannot answer without hurting someone, or cannot answer without lying:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Try stating an intention to not answer, or a truthful inability to do so\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>When faced with an absolute belief system, try to figure out if self-deception is involved:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p>If yes, be extremely wary, as the speaker is likely to be both unpleasantly adamant, and mistaken in their beliefs,<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>If no, the speaker may still be mistaken on some subjects, but at the very least they&#8217;re trying their best. Reasoned argument with them could be fascinating, regardless of whether or not anyone&#8217;s mind is changed.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Finally, when given the opportunity to engage in reasoned debate about your personal beliefs with someone, <i>take it<\/i>! I know no better way to check and see if you&#8217;re harboring a self-deceptive belief system.<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself constantly getting angry, sarcastic, defensive, or upset when thoughtfully questioned&#8230; you might want to take a good, long, hard look at yourself, and make some changes. Living in deception or constant fear of self-discovery is not healthy.<\/p>\n<hr width=\"75%\" align=\"center\"\/>\n<p>I so love philosophical debate&#8230; I wonder if I&#8217;m any good at it. ;-)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Conclusions Gathering together all the ramblings and data we&#8217;ve gone through so far, we can now hopefully reach some useful insights on dealing with issues&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-firestarter","category-ethics-questions"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2006,"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions\/2006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}