{"id":5398,"date":"2015-05-13T17:57:05","date_gmt":"2015-05-14T00:57:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/?p=5398"},"modified":"2015-05-13T18:00:35","modified_gmt":"2015-05-14T01:00:35","slug":"happy-riffing-on-de-dissertation-bluez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stormtiger.com\/collie\/bestiary\/2015\/05\/happy-riffing-on-de-dissertation-bluez\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy riffing on de dissertation bluez"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Just a few happy-making things today! Most pleasingly, things are progressing well, I think, with my dissertation proposal &#8212; woohoo! I&#8217;ve sent in the rough drafts of the Introduction, Methodology, and Literature Review, and received commentary back. In all the cases there&#8217;s a lot of polishing to do, of course, and a few bits where I was told this was a very interesting point and I should develop it further &#8212; which is very encouraging to read! But I didn&#8217;t receive any requests for major re-writes or do-overs, which is a great relief. I&#8217;m guesstimating this should be all completed on my part in about a month, tops, which will include sending in the proposal, the dissertation committee paperwork, and the ethics committee paperwork. Whew! I think I&#8217;m gonna make it! ;)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of hard work, I was seated in a local Kirk&#8217;s for lunch the other day, enjoying my burger &#8212; delicious, as always &#8212; and just relaxing my brain a bit from writing. I was rather desultorily doing some reading on my cell, so it took me a bit to register the two guys in the booth before me. They appeared to be two blue-collar guys on lunch break, one in his 30s and the other in his 40s, and they were slowly talking their way through a difficult problem together. I couldn&#8217;t tell exactly who was talking, since I didn&#8217;t want to stare and be rude, but I could hear bits and pieces of the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>From the tone of their voices, they were clearly struggling with whatever it was they were talking about. One of them would say something like, &#8220;Okay, so how big is it,&#8221; and the other would reply with a measurement\u2026 and then ask, &#8220;Wait, how do you change it from inches to centimeters?&#8221; Or one would ask, &#8220;So do we have to include the thickness, or what?&#8221; and the other would think hard for a bit, then slowly answer. It was when one of them said, &#8220;What&#8217;s the volume of a circle again?&#8221; that I amusedly thought to myself that I should get off my duff and go over and offer to help if I could &#8212; but then I heard, &#8220;Google it!&#8221; and I knew they had cell phones with internet connections &#8212; they&#8217;d be fine, and they wouldn&#8217;t potentially be embarrassed by a girl knowing math better than they.<\/p>\n<p>They continued in this vein for a while as I listened and grinned quietly to myself &#8212; I remember well struggling with both multiplication tables and long division as a child, and with calculus as an adult! From what I could overhear, it appeared they were calculating how much pipeline and what sized pipe they needed for a contracting job. Eventually they finished and came to a satisfactory answer to their problem.<\/p>\n<p>It was at that point that I feel I must congratulate myself on my self-restraint &#8212; because as they put away their cell phones, pencil stubs, and scribbled-on napkins, I heard one of them exclaim ruefully to the other, &#8220;Math is <em>hard<\/em>!&#8221; &#8212; and somehow I managed <em>not<\/em> to immediately stand up and shout, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/1992\/10\/21\/business\/company-news-mattel-says-it-erred-teen-talk-barbie-turns-silent-on-math.html\" target=\"_blank\">BARBIE! YOU ARE <em>VINDICATED<\/em>!!<\/a>&#8221; ;-D<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~<\/p>\n<p>Oh! One last wonderful thing to note: I had an <em>awesome<\/em> Mother&#8217;s Day! Sort of, at least\u2026 ;)<\/p>\n<p>For Mother&#8217;s Day I sent my mom one of the beautiful SARK blankets &#8212; it&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/planetsark.com\/sark-blankets\" target=\"_blank\">the one titled &#8220;Just for Mom&#8221; here<\/a>. It arrived in plenty of time, and on the actual day I called my mom to wish her a happy Mother&#8217;s Day! That was nice, both because I like talking with her and I don&#8217;t do that enough, and because she seemed to really love the gift &#8212; yay! However, she had to end the call early because she had some women friends coming over for bridge. When I asked what else she was doing to celebrate Mother&#8217;s Day I discovered that apparently Dad wasn&#8217;t taking Mom out for dinner or anything because his birthday is coming up in two weeks and they decided to celebrate then &#8212; so Mom had invited the friends over for bridge.<\/p>\n<p>After I hung up I was kind of bummed &#8212; I mean, come on! Mom is a <em>fabulous<\/em> mother and an all-around awesome woman! She&#8217;s brilliant, has the patience of Job as well as endless creativity and a wicked sense of humor, cooks like a dream, and always looks smart and attractive &#8212; though if she reads this she&#8217;ll laugh and put herself down, which I wish she wouldn&#8217;t. She also bicycles, goes horseback riding, hikes, cheerleads for the local basketball team, and serves on worthy committees &#8212; and that&#8217;s only the things I know of off the top of my head! In fact, a friend of mine once listened to me talking about all the physical activities she loves to engage in, then said in awe, &#8220;Your mother is a retired superheroine, Collie, right?&#8221; ;)<\/p>\n<p>So after talking about this with my housemates, we agreed that one&#8217;s husband simply <em>must<\/em> give a gift on Mother&#8217;s Day to his awesome wife of about 50 years! So I went on-line to <a href=\"http:\/\/ediblearrangements.com\" target=\"_blank\">Edible Arrangements<\/a>, found a store local to Mom and Dad, selected a beautiful and delicious little fruit basket that included chocolate-dipped strawberries and pineapple slices cut into star shapes, and had the attached note read: &#8220;To a fantastic mother and wife! Love, [Dad&#8217;s name].&#8221; I hit the purchase button, had a small &#8216;<em>squeeeee<\/em>! Mom&#8217;s gonna <em>love<\/em> this!&#8217; moment\u2026 and then thought no more of it.<\/p>\n<p>This morning &#8212; three days after Mother&#8217;s Day! &#8212; I got a call from my mom. Heehee! She was so shocked and pleased about the basket! Between enthusing about how sweet and juicy and delicious and beautiful the fruit basket was, I got the story from Mom: apparently the basket arrived a mere <em>one hour<\/em> after my purchase <em>on<\/em> Mother&#8217;s Day! That impressed me immensely &#8212; Edible Arrangements is a simply <em>amazing<\/em> company which I&#8217;m happy to promote! Better yet, however, was the story of how Mom tried to figure out who the basket was from. I got a case of the giggles as she related how Dad immediately disavowed purchasing it &#8212; silly man! He should have gracefully accepted the credit, then figured out who actually sent it!<\/p>\n<p>Next Mom thought maybe it was my sister &#8212; but she called later that day and mentioned that Dad had alerted her to its being Mother&#8217;s Day today in the US, so that she could send her best wishes to Mom on time. My sister lives in the UK, and their Mother&#8217;s Day is a week later than ours. So then Mom thought it must have been my sister&#8217;s husband &#8212; so she sent him a lovely thank you email telling him what a wonderful, sweet, thoughtful son-in-law he was! Of course, he wrote back a day or two later saying he&#8217;d love to be all those things\u2026 but it wasn&#8217;t he who&#8217;d sent the basket either! Mom thought some more about this, and then decided it must&#8217;ve been one of her women friends who&#8217;d come over for bridge. After all, while several of them brought over hosting gifts, one of them hadn&#8217;t &#8212; so maybe this was a subtle and very sweet way for her to do so! Mom was about to send her an email just like she&#8217;d sent to her son-in-law\u2026 but then she thought: no, best to be sure! So she called Edible Arrangements and asked who had sent the basket\u2026 and they told her, and she called me right away.<\/p>\n<p>So yeah\u2026 <em>best<\/em> Mother&#8217;s Day <em>evar<\/em>! :-D<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just a few happy-making things today! Most pleasingly, things are progressing well, I think, with my dissertation proposal &#8212; woohoo! 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