Collie's Bestiary

Having a unique name, such as mine is, has inadvertently led to a big personal surprise: people from my past are actually contacting me and asking to "friend" me on Facebook! I'm touched and pleased to do so, especially since my memories of high school (as a single example) were of me being an extremely [...]

I'm now on Facebook! I'm finding it a curiously fascinating window onto my own psyche. I've greatly enjoyed trying to find people from my past, but I've noticed some interesting reactions in myself as I do so. First, due to my family having moved so much, city to city, through almost all of my youth, [...]

Argh. It's the little things that trip you up when you're trying to focus on some huge project like a thesis. For example, I've realized that if I don't nibble something every four hours or so, my blood sugar crashes. This would be no biggie, except my behavior also changes in such as way as [...]

Reflections To sum up: if you (generalized you) have not thought through why you believe something, it may well be difficult (although not impossible) for you to explain your reasoning — especially if the belief is not based on logic. Also, if you hold conclusions based only on emotion, you will most likely find it [...]

In effect, as a friend pointed out, they expected me to manage the conversation for them, so they didn't have to take responsibility for their fear of confrontation — which was how they saw a good argument. Curiously, they often then stomped angrily off to yell at someone else about how they were right and [...]

or: "Collie, you're just so intimidating!" (Originally posted January 2005) To Bob, Dave, & Lou, who aren't intimidated… or so they say. ;) As those who know me are aware, I love a good argument. By "argument," of course, I don't mean screaming and verbal fisticuffs. I mean a thoughtful, mentally challenging discussion where two [...]

This month's Firestarter is a (badly needed) review and reflection on How Do We Keep Honesty? I figured since February is traditionally a month for love, this time I'd attempt to achieve love of self, and gently engage in some internal reflection — always a scary proposition. :-) Fair warning: this Firestarter will make the [...]

I've come to the conclusion I don't agree with the definition of Gatekeeper. I do agree there's more than just the two extremes — regardless of whether you call them "Warrior" and "Forgiver" or "heavy-handed militarism" and "turn-the-other-cheek pacifism." I suppose Gatekeeper is as good a term as any for that "middle of the road" [...]

Part of a quick "reflection" written for my aikido class. Huzzah! My aikido class has a list of recommended readings. The first of those books, which I requested at the library, has come in and is now successfully in my hot little hands. I'm the proud new borrower of Richard Strozzi Heckler's "Aikido and the [...]

or: Why Eartha Kitt is sexier than Madonna & Betty Boop combined! ;) Originally posted December 2004 Credits: For Bob, who correctly insisted the singer makes a huge difference! -& George, who came up with the subtitle; – for Eartha Kitt, who first showed me sensuality and sexiness could coincide without degenerating into tawdriness; – [...]